How to get the best wedding ceremony photos
Let’s take your wedding ceremony photos from Meh to Mmmarry Me Immediately!
Below I have several tips to help you get the best possible wedding ceremony photos. I’ve photographed over 400 weddings, from micro elopements with only a handful of people, up to huge weddings with 200+ guests, so I’ve pretty much seen it all.
In order to create the best wedding ceremony photos, here’s a guide on what to know:
1. Is your wedding photographer actually allowed to photograph your ceremony?
This is a biggie. Having a church ceremony? On occasion I have experienced occasions where a vicar doesn’t allow photographers into the church. Yes, you read that correctly; vicars sometimes refuse your photographer to actually enter the church at all – which is hugely disappointing for you, if you’ve had your heart set on some beautiful images of you and your partner in an important moment. Sometimes vicars won’t let photographers take photos during certain parts of the ceremony (usually the important parts, *eye roll*), and some vicars do not allow us to stand at the top of the aisle, where we would usually shoot back down the church, catching you face-on in all your feels.
If you’re having a church wedding or religious ceremony in particular, do check with your priest IN ADVANCE that we’re able to photograph your ceremony, and manage everyone’s expectations in advance. Being able to capture your ceremony is the basics, after all! it’s your day, you can only do it once, let’s get you those photos.
2. Have an unplugged ceremony!
If you’ve read my blogs before, you’ll know I am a lover of an unplugged ceremony, and if you haven’t read about it, what are you waiting for?! An unplugged ceremony doesn’t mean someone leaves a bunch of plugs lying around, or there’s no electricity or running water… it simply means you invite your guests to put their phones, cameras, tablets etc away for the duration of the wedding ceremony, and not to take any photos or videos, so they can be fully present in the moment.
Asking your guests to refrain from using their mobiles and electronic devices during your ceremony is the #1 way to perk up your ceremony photos from ‘Meh’ to ‘Wow’! I cannot stress how crazy it is, when I line up to capture someone walking up the aisle beaming with happiness, only to have someone step in front of my camera to take a blurry snap on their iPhone. Once I had to ask a guest to step out of the aisle who was photographing with AN IPAD. Like I said earlier - you can only do this bit once.
By asking your guests not to use their phones during the ceremony, you ensure everyone is present in that important moment with you, and not uploading a fuzzy, dark image of you to Snapchat. See more about unplugged weddings HERE
If you’re unsure how to approach this, there’s loads of inspo on Pinterest for signs or wording you can use on invites etc. Check it out HERE. You can also ask your registrar to advise guests before the ceremony to keep their phones in their pockets until after the ceremony.
3. Let there be light!
Ceremony space lacking in light? Well, you might want to arrange some then. I’m serious! Too often couples don’t realise that getting married in dark spaces means - you guessed it - dark photos.
For the best photos, you need lots of lovely natural light. If there’s a lack of natural light, then you’ll want to consider getting in some other lights. Fairy lights, a neon sign, or anything that will provide some more light so your guests can see you, and your photos don’t look like they were taken at night. Technically it’s not a photographer’s job to light a space, just to capture it, so let me give my two pennies’ worth now by saying make sure your space is lit properly. It makes such a difference.
3. The Aisle Walk
If I had a pound for every time people suddenly realise they don’t know what they’re doing for the aisle walk right before it, I’d be significantly wealthier. It’s not ideal to have panic-stricken bridesmaids practically running up the aisle in quick succession, then bunching up in a group at the top as none of them know where to sit. In an ideal world, bridesmaids/flower girls/page boys should have a pretty hefty gap in between them on the aisle, in order to a) enable them to find their seats at their top and not cause a traffic jam, and b) enable me to get at least one good, clear snap of each one doing their walk.
Have a practice with your bridesmaids, including the music you’re planning on walking up the aisle with, from the actual walking bit to where they’re going to sit when they get there, to ensure there’s a good gap between each one, and leaving a reasonable gap before the bride commences her walk last. I really want to capture that special moment of you looking back up at your partner from the aisle, it really is unique, and when there’s a traffic jam of people jammed in front of you, it ain’t gonna work. Again - there’s only one opportunity to do this!
Also – and this really helps – when there is a clear line of sight from the back to the front of the aisle, it enables us photographers to capture your partner’s reaction when they see their partner walking up the aisle for the first time. Winner winner chicken dinner.
4. A little hand-holding never hurt anyone
Once you and your significant other are united at the top of the aisle….. it doesn’t hurt to hold hands. In fact, I actively encourage you to do this! If not both hands, just one hand will do! Even if you’re not particularly tactile, holding hands makes for 1000% better ceremony photos, rather than two people who look like they’ve just met. Don’t wait to be told what to do by your officiant, some might remind you to hold hands but others won’t, so take the initiative and grab hold of your partner when you get to them. Not only does it look fab for the photos, it will also give you a tangible sense of reassurance and stability at that nervy time.
5. Cry
Give me tears, baby. Let those emotions out!
6. Practice your kiss
OK I’m not about to give you pointers on the technical aspects of your ceremony kiss, because that would be downright weird. What I will say, is that it’s worth having one trial run of your ‘You may now kiss each other’ moment, so you know what to expect from each other. For example, one could be going for a peck, and the other a full blown 3-second liplock? OK yes, I said I wouldn’t talk about it in detail….. (but so I can capture that unique moment, do have one practice before your ceremony.) And hold the kiss for at least 3 seconds, so us photographers have time to get it in focus!
So there’s 6 things you can think about, in order to really enhance the opportunities for great ceremony photos! Obviously these are guidelines rather than rules and each wedding is unique, but just taking a little bit of time to think how it’s going to roll, helps me get the wedding photographs that you’ll both treasure.
